I think at the end of the day Winston, i think you will play it just right!
you have orchestrated a great fade so far and you will continue too...
yeah, i liked the chickens analogy too
Oz
we had to go off grid for a time, time and half a time as we thought we had been outed.
fortunately it was a false alarm, but it was a stressful time.
i asked for my original diary thread to be deleted in case there could be anything on there to identlfy mrs smith and i. i am always very careful when posting, and am sure there was nothing on there, but felt it best to have it removed in order to be as cautious as a dove.
I think at the end of the day Winston, i think you will play it just right!
you have orchestrated a great fade so far and you will continue too...
yeah, i liked the chickens analogy too
Oz
son was up visiting today and we had some great little chats about all things watchtower.
i would say the chances of him going back are real slim now, for he was telling me of some of his own wtf research on the internet about them.. anyway, at one point he came up, gave me a big hug and said "thankyou for making me think".
it seems that all the little seed dropping and question dropping over the last 3 years really did work!
Thankyou all for the comments
this forum has given me life. All i can give back is my journey (as you will find under my posts) of my own awakening and the efforts to help the kids out. Perhaps i will find time to go thru all the posts and pull out the bits and snippets about the kids, its hard to remember all the little drops of questioning i used over the last 3 years or so.
Cantleave, more than happy for you to have reposted, i feel privleged even at the thought that i may in some little way help someone else one day.
lova ya'll peoples
Oz
news from my wife from the recent meeting is that our congregation will be recieving 2 new magazine carts for market witnessing.
we live in a small market town in north yorkshire and have regular street markets.. the congregation is small (75+ publishers, -1 now) so it seems that this is being rolled out pretty conprehensivly now to all congs.
i still have no info as to whether each congregation has to purchase these from the hq or costings per unit..
just get your own cart full of anti JW stuff and follw them around...
Oz
Welcome
as the kids are quite young I wouldnt worry too much about them...it's amazing jusy how much WT stuff they don't take in if you let it be,
concentrate on the husband first. But don't assume because he is spiritually weak that he will fold. The JW spirituality status is all about how many hours door to door are done, nothing more. A wife going off the reservation can trigger questions in his mind that lead him to do MORE JW stuff not less in an attempt to bolster his weakness and bring you back in.
Learn well your enemy and read lots of how people handle things in similar situations.
oh and one more thing, Tell him nothing. Only ask him QUESTIONS to make him think....
all the best
Oz
if you go to college/university...where do you see yourself in 20 years, 50 years?.
if you do not get higher learning, where do you see yourself in 20 years, 50 years?.
or loss/saving for 40 years = $480,000.00.. someone else can compound the interest.. do you have a 5 year plan?
I want my daughter to go to Uni, but not so much for the education in any particular field but for its education in life, the diversity of people and opinions. To be challenged to think, to question and to not accept that she just has to be a mummy and pop out babies (unless that is what she really wants)
I want her to see a wider world of oportunity outside small country town life which may be great during school years but does little to stimulate the mind after that.
Along the way i think (hope) she will find what she really wants to be involved in, and hopefully make a good living for her self.
Maybe she will become a doctor or a vet, a lawyer or a peace protester, i dont know, I dont care...so long as she has been exposed to oportunity and chooses.
Oz
son was up visiting today and we had some great little chats about all things watchtower.
i would say the chances of him going back are real slim now, for he was telling me of some of his own wtf research on the internet about them.. anyway, at one point he came up, gave me a big hug and said "thankyou for making me think".
it seems that all the little seed dropping and question dropping over the last 3 years really did work!
Son was up visiting today and we had some great little chats about all things watchtower. I would say the chances of him going back are real slim now, for he was telling me of some of his own WTF research on the internet about them.
Anyway, at one point he came up, gave me a big hug and said "thankyou for making me think"
It seems that all the little seed dropping and question dropping over the last 3 years really did work! It DID make him question the JWs and their hold on him and his sister. He did admit that he was at pain sometimes wondering why i was doing it though.
He related one event that really troubled him just a few years ago, he spoke to an elder and asked him, seeing that you say we will all be happy in the new system, and that my dad won't be there, how will i be happy? I will not be happy if dad is not there...Elders answer: Jehovah will just make it like that...trust jehovah. sons response to himself "what? is jehovah going to fill me with morphine or something?"
he called the JWS and the WT evil. An evil cult messing with kids minds and giving them nightmares.
anyway, lots of little reassuring stuff from him, he is loving his life out of the borg. I just wanted to share with those who may have teenagers trapped in there, dropping little hints that all is not well in WT land, and making them question, CAN WORK
Oz
we had to go off grid for a time, time and half a time as we thought we had been outed.
fortunately it was a false alarm, but it was a stressful time.
i asked for my original diary thread to be deleted in case there could be anything on there to identlfy mrs smith and i. i am always very careful when posting, and am sure there was nothing on there, but felt it best to have it removed in order to be as cautious as a dove.
Interesting plan winston...
personally i dont see what the fuss is about 'playing by their rules'. You go through whatever hoops they put out to accomplish your aims. It makes no difference to them if you get D/F, you DA or you fade or you go out in a blaze of wild fire shouting apostate teachings from the platform. You are still seen as bird food.
they miss you for 10 seconds and then they are back on the programed track of oh well jehovah cleansed him out and oh whats for dinner?
seriously, they remind me of a yard full of chickens all pecking at seed on the ground. Along comes a fox and snatches one, all squark and feathers flying. Then a minute after mr fox has gone they are back at pecking at the ground...like nothing happened
Oz
it has been confirmed by some brothers on facebook that a 42 year old sister died today around 5pm when her suv got on the train tracks while the amtrak was crossing in the state of nc.
it came up on the news today although they never mentioned that she was one of jehovah's witnesses.
so where was jehovah's holy spirit in this matter?
why wouldn't they press charges?
It is their right to do so, it sends a message to other employess that you don't get to steal a years wages and walk away with a shoe up your butt.
How is their reputation at risk for taking legal action againts a theif?
It all adds up perfectly: an employee steals a bunch of money and probably 'can't do the time for the crime'. Added to the situation is her own mindset as a jw in crises.
Oz
i was shown a hard copy of an email from a purported jw businessman who claimed he had contact with some un officials as part of his 'business'.
in conversation, he claimed that he blurted out and asked them when they were going to clamp down on religion as foretold in jw prophecy.
according to the account, the un official acted startled, and asked 'how do you know?'.
Indeed an old JW urban legend...back in the 80s it was ''a JW went to a door preaching and the person identified themselves as a high ranking UN official, who when asked about the UN clamping down religion, was all startled and demanded to know how this JW new of their secret plans''...
and thusly a new batch of JWs get to go ''ooh ahh and wow! We are sooooo the troof''!
how does an email have an 'original hard copy'?
Oz
so about a week ago, i showed my cousin & her husband [an elder in our congregation] the picture on pg 29 of our 4/15/2013 study wt and asked, "if jesus is head of the congregation then where is he?".
after several minutes of searching, dead silence.. i then asked if they had heard the part on the 2012 summer district conv the part about "our spiritual mother, where the c.o said that "the bible by itself does not shine thru as life-giving truths just by itself.
" they were shocked and said that i must have misheard it because that would be apostasy.
he (elder) can tell himself anything he likes to sleep well, but he KNOWS what he said about 'apostasy'...
he just can't face it YET
Oz